Coach Paulo Mendes

Swap Heartbreak
For Healing & Love

I Help struggling couples find healing, restoration, and rediscover love by reconnecting with their original relationship divine love design. Without the pain and frustrations of our day-to-day performance driven lifestyle.

Our 1:1 Transformational Life Coaching and our Relationship Coaching Programs are specifically designed for you. We know the pain and challenge of building a strong and meaningful relationship. We have been there, through the good, the bad and the ugly parts too. So, we not only understand it… We can show you the way!

We will help you discover what you need to heal and how to create a life worth living. You are not alone anymore. Rediscover with your TrueSelf, reconnect with your purpose, and thrive in your life and relationships.

Relationship First Steps

Pre Marriage Coaching for a Strong Relationship Foundation

Pre Marriage coaching provides the steps, advice and guidance to build your relationship on a solid foundation before getting married. A marriage can be a very satisfying life journey. We all are created with a desire to love someone special and to be loved. All of us are drawn to love and will fall in love at some point in time of our lives, it is inevitable.

Many couples regret getting married and live through an unsatisfying marriage, because they lacked a foundation of clear communication and understanding. However, now you can establish a healthy marriage foundation through our coaching program

Relationship Rescue

Tired of not having a thorough plan to heal after Relationship Burn Out?

This course walks you through the critical steps required to address the hurt, neglect, frustration and reconnect as a couple. “RRP” stands for Relationship Rescue Program. The Relationship Rescue Program’s framework has been honed over decades of experience in this field.

This is not your average light and fluffy program that only scratches the surface. This 12 Weeks couple’s coaching is an extremely well thought out deep dive into the critical elements needed for healing. Up front, it’s important to know that we won’t shame any of the spouses. This is a safe place for both of you to heal.

Paulo doesn't believe in giving up. He is wise and experienced. He guides you with more than just theory from the books. We're so happy for having him as our life coach & relationship coach.

Marlon & Lana Holz

Musician / Entrepreneur

We were referred to Coach Paulo by a friend, at a crucial time in our marriage where we were about to part ways. His guidance not only helped us heal, but also helped us grow and thrive in our relationship.

Wayne & Nicole Rynhoud

Biz Exec / Personal Trainer

Relationship Bootcamp - Online

Learn the fundamentals of healing together, forgiving, & reconnecting as a couple.

This Program Is A 4 Weeks Primer For All Individuals Or Couples Participating In Our More Comprehensive Online Courses Or Weekend Retreats.

On Each Of The 4 Weeks, You Will Have 3 To 5 Goals To Complete For That Week, Featuring: Reading And Exercise Questions Or Activities To Help You Achieve That Goal. There Are Questions For Both Individuals And Couples, Depending On If Your Spouse Is Participating With You. The Bootcamp Is Accessible By Computer And Mobile Phone.

Relationship Weekend Retreat

Navigating your way through the chaos of Relationships is much like swimming underwater in the dark. You want to breathe but don’t know if you’re going up or down, making progress or drowning.

We’ve been there ourselves and have treated thousands of couples with similar struggles, so we’re very familiar with the challenges you face. More importantly, we can show you the necessary steps for finding your way back to the surface.

This 3 day Immersive Couple’s weekend Retreat we’ll give you step by step, practical guides each day so you’ll know where you’re headed as a Happy, & in Love couple.

Work With Me

Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Emotional Pain, Overwhelm, Loneliness, Financial Insecurity

Are these words part of your Relationship?!

I help people like YOU Reconnect & Design their BEST LIFE!

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TESTIMONIALS

I help people connect with their Original Design and Create their Best Life!

Excellent

Based on 10 reviews

theo nel

2022-08-03

Coach Paulo. He has helped me find direction when I was lost. He helped me rediscover myself and allowed me to grow at my own pace. This with some practical activities and not just talking in circles is what helped me flourish.

samora Menze

2022-08-03

Clarah Chibs

2022-08-02

I am so grateful to know you Paulo,you are a wonderful person who's mission is to heal the world and make sure the world becomes a better world . Continue the good works.

Shereen Kleynhans

2022-07-26

It felt like coming home 🧡 My journey was not an easy one, and Paulo took every step with me. Did I want to hear that I was also wrong, no. Did I need to hear it, yes.. He doesn't sugar coat things (which is what I appreciate and what I needed) and his voice echoes when you find yourself struggling or facing an obstacle. I wake up with determination every morning and I walk with the confidence I've always wanted. I found my voice and am thriving forevermore 🌷 Growing and developing the ME I've lost along the way has been such an amazing journey. Seeing new life and reason to be, is exciting and welcomed. Thank You

Martha van der Westhuizen

2022-07-18

This has been the greatest investment ever. Paulo is amazing. Just gives you perspective of your life and how to get on track again. Worth every penny!

Jacqui Menger

2022-07-18

Paulo helped me ground my heart and mind. His Transformational Life Coaching has brought me astounding Insights and clarity. As a Divorced entrepreneur, mother of 2 teenage girls, running my own Business from home can be challenging, to say the least. So, Re-discovering my personal strengths and Renewed sense of worth, letting go of the pain and self-judgement, overcoming my limiting beliefs and wrong mindsets that used to hold me back, I now enjoy life with courage and confidence, on my own terms! Loving myself, my daughters and my business! I truly advise everyone to take on this Journey!"

Adri Webber

2022-07-18

Paulo has helped me identify the truths in my life, heal the pain, and start my recovery process. He helped me find my inner-self and accept who I am. For over 50 years a Trauma caused me major personal problems, and many health issues. I always felt that I needed to prove myself all the time, blind-sided by the hurt. Even having an amazing husband supporting me in everything I do, I never felt good enough. So many people go through their whole lives carrying their pain, into their work, relationships, families... to their grave. Recently celebrating 40 years of Marriage, I remind myself how fortunate I am to have had this transformational coaching opportunity. I feel like a whole new person, as I build myself into the person I want to be... For me, for my husband, my children and my grandchildren. I will definitely recommend any person to invest in yourself so you can become the best version of yourself.

Coach Nicole Rynhoud

2022-07-18

Every session with Paulo since October 2020 has been profound. He is helping me recreate myself with a brand new belief system and bringing all my limiting beliefs to the surface. Most sessions I am in tears as I realize what beliefs have been holding me back. Just last week for example, I showed up with an incomplete task. I was to Simply share what my rewards and consequences would be if I didn't reach my level 10 health. This tasked required me to think about what I wanted out of life as opposed to what I needed. It wasn't a simple task. And through the lack of completion, we discovered that I forgot how to dream. Truly Dream about the type of life I want to live and the person I want to become. I'm looking forward to next week with completed homework 🙌 🙂 Paulo you have no idea how much I value you as a friend and Life Coach Life can be tough. Do not underestimate the power of a life coach. Thank you

Letitia de Jongh

2022-07-17

Paulo is a very insightful and skilled coach and it has been an absolute pleasure working with him. I am blessed our paths have crossed. I highly recommend Paulo to anyone looking for an exceptional life coach.